There was a little boy at the swimming pool. His friends were making fun of him, and he was clearly nervous about something. He didn’t want to jump off the diving board. He didn’t do it. After his friends moved along he finally summoned up the courage and jumped off the plank. When he surfaced, he erupted from the water with a giant smile – “I did it! I conquered my fear!”

It was that simple for the boy.

Many of us live everyday wrapped up in a conundrum of anxieties, fears and insecurities. We’re worried about the present, past and future. We we’re about our clothes, what we said last night, spiders, theft, robbery, the weather. For some of us, our daily insecurities are the reason we spend hours rolling around in bed at night or make strange decisions during our vulnerable times.

We don’t want to let our fears stop us, or get in our way. We want to walk around with confidence, be able to talk to whoever we want, and do the things we want to do. Overcoming your fears is simpler than you expect, and there could almost be a formula to it. After all, we do subconsciously everyday.

Never let fear decide your future

1. You are who you want to be

Always remember that at the end of the day, you are who you want to be. If you want to be a strong, charismatic, confident person, you must grow and train yourself to become that. You must remind yourself that in order to succeed, you must overcome your fears. If you do not, your insecurities pose a threat of taking over your true personality and commanding the avenues of your life.
Say to yourself everyday that you are strong. Remind yourself in the mirror. Watch affirmative videos that will offer you guidance. Speak to yourself until you know it to be true.

2. Fear exposure

Sometimes the only way to overcome fear is to introduce it into your life. Imagine a little boy or girl that is so scared of spiders, garden snakes, or big dogs. These are mostly harmless creatures, but to an inexperienced child they can be truly terrifying since they have no prior experience with them. But as soon as they have a few experiences, good experiences, with the animals, you can reassure them that they are not so bad, and may be on your side. This is all just practice for growing up.

Same goes for adults. If you are terrified of talking to people, practice it more often. Force yourself into casual small talk and interactions. Nothing too serious, just a few things to get yourself warmed up. Even the most elite socialites need to practice communication from time to time. It happens from the minute we wake up to the time we go to bed. We need to continue to practice our social muscles. When it is fear based, it is even more quintessential.

3. Confrontation

Fearing something will not make it disappear. If you are afraid of something terminal, like death, it is best to come to grips with that immediately. For children it is easy for them to run away and hide, but we know better than that. Consider spending time with people who are dealing with something terminal in order to recognize the bravery and composure they have during their ordeal. It is a life worth examining.

4. Find the exhilaration

How about turning your fears into something fun? Sometimes the adrenaline rush is all you need to reconnect with yourself on the inside. Do you think comedians weren’t terrified the first time they went on stage? They were, but they did it and dealt with the emotional consequences. Or how about extreme sport athletes, F1 drivers, or others in high risk employment? These people risk life and limb everyday with courage, but they certainly didn’t start that way. Use adrenaline as motivation to get over that hill, and you might find yourself doing something you now love.

5. Work your way through it

If you’re in a pinch and your fears start coming up fast, remember to slow down. If you make decisions from a basis of fear, you’re going to make some emotionally charged decisions. Use it as an exercise. Every time you feel that anxiety coming up, use it as a cue to start breathing properly and relax. Use simple mantras like “there is nothing I cannot overcome,” and “there is nothing here to worry about” to give yourself real time motivation. Analyze the situation and realize, there is nothing to be worried about at all!

6. You’re not alone

People find fear through a place of anxiety, and anxiety is often a lonely, isolating place to be in. We always forget that – hey! – there are a lot of other people who are also nervous about this! Lots and lots of people around you hide from anxiety and fear everyday; in fact, just about everybody. Remember that you’re not the only one. The best thing to do is simply talk about it immediately with someone. The more open you are about it, the more people will help you with the problem, and you will feel better to know that everyone else knows what you’re going through.

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“The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule but to schedule your priorities” Stephen R. Covey

I know I’ve been guilty of this one. I plan, I even write down my intentions and goals every new year, but end up postponing them till the following semester. Then before I know it, the end of the year arrives and I haven’t accomplished much. Something huge always gets in the way – life and everything in between.

A lot of us have a hectic lifestyle and schedule. If like me you’re a single full time working mom with an active toddler at home, you know exactly what I’m talking about. Our work life and other responsibilities get in the way, emergencies and unexpected events, chores and errands, kids’ endless demands, distractions, tiredness, and as much as we’re reluctant to admit it, laziness.

Hey I’m not a robot! I get tired sometimes, laziness is just a side effect; my body needs to rest so I can recharge my batteries. Distractions and other entertainment help me to unwind and clear my mind. On my own free time I love sipping iced tea in my hammock watching an all-time favorite movie. Or just lounge on the beach – and think about nothing at all.

So you’re talking to me about listing down my priorities? I only have time for one priority: to survive and meet my family’s needs – trying to throw in a bit of light heartedness and fun here and there. If I had an assistant or a nanny, I would have plenty of time left to daydream about my many desires and set my priorities around them. But as far as I’m concerned, we only have 24 hours in a day, minus 7 hours of sleep to function properly (would love to prioritize nap time.)

To that I respond to you my dear: you are right but also wrong. Priorities may in fact simplify and improve your life. Hear me out.

Fast forward a couple decades from now. If you’re 35, imagine yourself at 55. You’re still at a job you that doesn’t fulfill you, (even if you’re making more money,) still wishing you had more time to relax and enjoy yourself, or doing the things that are important to you. Still following your ego’s whims that don’t contribute to your highest good, breaking harmony with your greater self and heart’s desire. Still not seeing the bigger picture. Drifting through life, like in a foggy dream, days and years blending into one another. Going wherever the wind carries you, doing whatever your friends, family, or significant other want or expect you to do.

Personally, visualizing this kind of future makes me want to shake myself to wake up. I deserve better than to live my life just so that I can survive – work and pay bills – we all do. I want to live life now, not let it pass me by. I long to radiate positive vibrations that can only be achieved when in touch with my inner light. I want to learn and grow as a person, to contribute in a positive manner and make a difference in this world, while using my unique set of gifts and experience. I yearn to nourish my soul through creative endeavors or leisure time. To exemplify the right values to my daughter – not just hardworking values. Those are my goals that will serve as the foundation for my priorities.

Instead of allocating 90% of my time and energy around fulfilling my basic needs, going through the motion, I’ll take control of my life (and myself) and try to incorporate my goals in everything that I do – even in the most mundane tasks like cleaning the bath tub: I can tap into my inner child and listen to my favorite tunes while scrubbing it. While commuting to work, I opt to listen to spiritual or self growth messages and later apply the teachings in my life. A new day will be viewed as another opportunity to learn, grow, laugh, connect with my inner self, or make a positive impact – these priorities of mine will influence everything that I do. And yes setbacks will be inevitable but won’t throw me off track; I have my priorities in check.

Essentially setting priorities isn’t about having enough time for them, but about deciding what you truly want and reserve your energy around those specific endeavors or goals that you choose for yourself. Because at the end of the day, we’re always presented with choices. We thus control our fate by the choices we make.

So in lieu of watching TV every night after work, even when I am tempted to watch The Office, I tell myself that this isn’t my priority. If I’m invited for drinks and I haven’t finished a post on my blog that I needed to complete this week, I will decline the invitation. As I type away, I kill three birds with one stone; I help others as I help myself, while getting in touch with my true self. If my daughter wants to play and I have a pile of laundry and dishes calling my name, I will choose to play with her, clear my mind, and fully enjoy the moment. On the days I feel like frowning, I will lift my head up and smile at a stranger. Basically I vow to discard whatever does not support my purpose and my priorities – including negative thoughts.

Until my early 30s I had my priorities all wrong. As a result, I was stagnating, feeling trapped, not knowing exactly why – indeed something was missing in my life. So I reset my priorities around in order to carve a better future for myself and my daughter. To live more effectively, with meaning and purpose. A successful present is a successful future for sure.

Priorities are important because:

1. We have limited time and energy

Personally that motivates to not want to waste these two most important resources we have. Otherwise I will continue to focus on and do the things that don’t serve me, and live life feeling depleted. My mind will be filled with worries that shouldn’t concern me. As a result, I will not be able to enjoy my life the way I could and should.  Incorrect priorities can rule and taint my entire life.

2. Everyone has unique gifts or talents, abilities and skills

No priorities or incorrect priorities mean that you are neglecting  them, also forfeiting your purpose in life.

3. They will simplify your life

‘First things first’ mindset will give your life direction. Your decisions are protected as you know what you stand for – you will know what to eliminate and keep in your life by setting priorities, whether they be in your personal or career life. All this will help you to continue

about your journey most efficiently by setting clear intentions.

So how do you decide what your priorities are?

Write down a list of all the things you value such as: happiness, tranquility, respect, traveling, friendships, health and fitness, honesty and depth, kindness, God, family, helping others, entrepreneurship, adventure, freedom, good will, rest and relax, love and romantic relationships etc. In short, anything you stand for or are passionate about. Then do a bit of reflection:

Is your life at the moment aligned with your values and passions? What can you do, in practical terms, to live the life you really want according to your priorities?

For example if you prioritize:

Your kids – Postpone your chores for awhile or do less of them. Put your phone down. Play and interact with your children, giving them your full attention and love that they crave and need from you.

Fitness – Wake up an hour earlier to go for a run or work out in front of the television after work. Say no to junk food and sodas.

Traveling – Stop going to Starbucks for a few months or eating out as often. With your accumulated savings go on trips. If you’re willing to invest in your abilities and time, find ways to put them to good use, and make your own money so that you can be your own boss and travel whenever you want.

Respect – Have zero tolerance for abuse, put downs, taking advantage of, or other disrespectful attitudes towards you.

Tranquility, peace of mind, and happiness – Practice gratitude. Regain access to your empathetic abilities. Focus outside of yourself. Be more considerate, spread the love and help others whenever you can (starting inside your home.) Enjoy more tranquility in your life by living in the moment, or by letting things slide i.e picking your battles

Make a positive difference in the world – Volunteer, smile at people or speak kind words, help out a neighbor, share freely, have positive thoughts.

Personal freedom – Reset your boundaries and say no to the people, engagements or activities you do not enjoy. Do it unapologetically! Also stop worrying about what strangers think of you to in order to increase your personal freedom. Take time off for yourself and do the things you love.

Setting the right priorities is crucial if you want to live a life of quality. I used to believe that taking life as it came and going with the flow, wherever my whims at the time took me, was the best way to live. Little did I know that I first have to steer my ship in the direction I truly want to go – become the captain of my life and mold myself into the person I want to be. Only then can I allow things to unfold naturally and take their course – going with the flow of my own life and not anyone else’s.

Our life is the result of all the decisions that we’ve made. If we have our priorities all wrong, we will end up in situations we don’t like. We will never progress in life.

With a bit of soul searching, defining your priorities will keep you focused on what matters, building yourself a brighter present and future.

Remember to be kind with yourself as you try to find your way. Experimenting, failing, and mistakes are part of the process of refining yourself and your priorities – of knowing yourself and what matters most to you in life. Sometimes it takes time to decide which priorities are truly aligned with your heart’s desires (instead of your ego’s.) Perhaps this is why your new year’s resolutions never really stick. You didn’t really think about what you needed to give up in order to keep them. You didn’t efficiently organize your time and energy around them. You thought they would make you feel better or fulfill your life but didn’t deliver such results. In short you didn’t set the right priorities.

Create some time for what’s most important to you – make room for the things that you truly value, the people you love. Because life is more than paying our bills and partying on the weekends. Ultimately, isn’t your self worth more important than just getting by and satisfying your basic human or egoistic needs?

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This is one of my favourite videos by Prince EA, where he talks about auto correcting humanity.

Can We Auto-Correct Humanity?

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Imagine this:

(1) You wake up to the sound of your alarm, see that you snoozed one too many times and you now have to run into the shower, pick up some random bar laying on your kitchen counter for breakfast and drive as quickly as you can to work, infuriated with all the “horrible drivers” around you.

or

(2) You wake up an hour before you actually need to leave your house for work. You spend the first 30 minutes getting ready, making sure the shower water is the perfect temperature. You have ample time to make some amazing eggs with toast, and you look like a 10 because you had more than enough time to get ready. You spend the last 30 minutes before you have to go to work either meditating, planning your day, spending some time with your kids, writing in your journal, reading the book you’ve been dying to get to, or knocking out a work-task you know you’ll have to finish later that day. You leave to work feeling incredible. You look great, your stomach is satisfied, your brain is ready for action and for some reason the drivers around you aren’t driving you crazy. You of course, get to work on time, feeling relaxed.

The fact of the matter is, that it doesn’t matter who you are, what your job is or where in the world you are. It also doesn’t matter what exactly you want to do in the morning. Becoming a morning person creates time for you to engage in all the activities you want to do, and complete all the work you need to do without feeling stressed or under pressure.

Becoming a morning person is the single best change you can make to your life.

Why?

Because time increases exponentially the earlier you wake up.

How?

The extra time gained by not having to deal with transportation time and external distractions are all compounded by either knocking out necessary tasks of the day or making sure your heart, body and mind are properly fueled and primed for a fantastic day ahead.

With less external distractions, less time wasted getting from one place to another, and getting out of bed on “the right” foot, you can get a lot more done a lot, more quickly, plain and simple.

It all sounds nice, right?

The real “problem” is actually beginning to take steps towards becoming an early riser who makes use of the morning hours.

Here are some the steps you need to take if you’re serious about becoming a morning person:

If you REALLY desire to be an early riser and you’re willing to commit to the challenge, then the one thing you really need to understand is that you need to break your negative connection with the early morning by:

• (a) making it as easy as possible to get the day started after you wake up
• (b) waking up with energy
• (c) having a reason to wake up.

That being said, the transition is difficult, so here are some of the tips to get you through the struggle!

Step (1) The importance of the night before:

Waking up early isn’t easy and to become a morning person you need to make the transition as simple and smooth as possible. One of the ways to do that is eliminate all the decision making you usually do in the morning. Decision fatigue is a real problem, and in the morning you need all the energy you can get, you can’t waste it making petty decisions about what is going to look cute to wear today or thinking about what you really feel like eating for breakfast today.

You need to have the following items done before you go to bed:

• (a) All your bags packed and ready to go for the next day so that you don’t have to do anything besides pick it/them up on the way out of the house.
• (b) The clothes you want to wear the next day should be decided and laid out where you can just grab them and put them on after you brush your teeth.
• (c) What you want to eat for breakfast (if you want to eat breakfast—I definitely recommend it to get your energy up in the morning—specifically some carbs for long-lasting energy).
• (d) The first few tasks you want to knock out in the morning or rather what the first few hours of your morning is going to consist of.

Step (2) Waking up with energy:

I know you’ve heard it a thousand times and it still doesn’t get any easier, but I PROMISE if you do this, you’ll automatically start feeling more energetic when you get up.

As soon as you open your eyes and turn on your alarm, you forget about what your mind and body are saying, they’re lazy. They’re exactly what prevent you from being an early riser. They need training.

So this is what you do, you open your eyes and the second you realize you’re awake you JUMP out of bed and do 10 jumping jacks.

How simple is that, just 10 jumping jacks. Your blood starts flowing, your energy increases instantly and you’re awake, it is actually that easy if you just commit to doing it one day you’ll see, I PROMISE!

Step (3) Have a reason to wake up—have a PURPOSEFUL morning:

No, I don’t mean wake up and think about how beautiful life is and how lucky you are to be alive (if that’s what you want to do with the morning time, then I’m all for it). I mean you need to have something that you want to do in the morning, a task you want to accomplish early on before the madness of the day starts to slow you down. An appointment or meeting you need to go to, maybe you want to exercise early in the day.

You need a reason to get up because if you wakeup without any intention for specific action you want to take, you’ll get up, think about why the hell you’re awake so early, and you’ll end up falling back into bed.  You need to have something that you’re energetic about and excited to complete because it is either a necessary task you can get out of the way and clear up your day, or an activity that will drive your day in the best way possible – give you some energy, and get your happiness going early on.

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Age is just a number! We all know this. Really important is how we feel inside. But we have to admit that some of our habits can influence our age. Not the chronological one, but the mental and biological age.

Are you worrying incessantly? Then you might be older than you think. Are you exercising regularly? That might take of some years.

Take just now this quick and easy quiz and find out how old are you really, based on your habits!

How Old Are You REALLY Based Off Your Habits?

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Life is like a tree.  Everyone starts out on the same path, rising together as one tree trunk.  Doing all the “right” things.  You go through each grade together.  Then high school.  Then college.  Then get a job.  That’s when life starts to branch out.  Most people still continue with a similar but different path for some time.  All separate branches but growing up toward what society believes to be the sun.  What it tells you success looks like. But the longer the tree grows, the further the space between the branches.  You realize there is no more normal, and all are free to chart their own path. In fact, you have no choice but to.  The trunk is long gone, and there is no right thing to do anymore.

But being the first one to branch out from the trunk is fucking terrifying.  The rest of the tree does not understand what you’re doing and warns you’re losing your chance at sunlight.  Take a different approach to growth, and you will be judged.  You will be criticized.  You will be faced with attempts to talk you out of it by people who truly believe they are doing you a favor.  But don’t accept their ignorance as gospel.  Take the feedback courteously.  Gently place it in a garbage bag.  And throw it the hell out.  Your purpose is clear to you and only you.  And when they eventually see you living it, they will understand why you dismissed their advice.

It most definitely won’t be easy to branch out first or grow sideways when everyone else is growing up.  It will be tough.  But it will feel amazing.  You may not get the most sunlight, but you just may be the one to get the most rain.  When you branch out sideways because you crave water over light, you will grow so much quicker.  When you discover and answer the path that calls to you, you will grow stronger and faster each day.  You will soak up more and more water, and it will only fuel you to keep going.

You will be scared, and you may feel lost at times.  But your thirst will keep propelling you in the right direction.  Guiding you toward what you need to feel satiated.  Though you’re in uncharted territory, you already know the way to go.  When your heart is thirsty, it doesn’t know the path to warmth.  Franky, it doesn’t give a shit.

So why stay with the trunk so long?  I challenge you to forget the tree.  Don’t be a tree.  Be a bush.  Be a shrub.  Be a goddamn pumpkin patch.  Don’t wait to do you.  Chart your own path much sooner, right from the start.  And do it unapologetically.  Often by the time life separates into branches and we realize we are free to pursue our own passions, there are so many things that make it much more challenging.  Mortgage. Children. Insurance. Retirement. The risk is often so much greater.  By the time the branch breaks free from the trunk, it is already so far away from the ground.

If you start now, start today, you will undoubtedly reach what fuels your soul.  The water is there waiting for the first to yearn for it.  The first to be brave enough to grow toward it.  Let that be you.  Don’t let life be a tree.  Don’t spend your days fighting to be the tallest branch only to realize you don’t even fucking like the sun.  Have courage.  Grow sideways.  Get drenched.

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We all see the world around us through the filter of our personal experiences. The same ones that have shaped our character. So, we can surely say that we see the world according to our character.

Our perspective makes us unique human beings. Your friend won’t see the same things exactly the same way as you. That’s the beauty of this world.

Take just now this quick and easy quiz and find out what kind of unique person you are according of what you see.

What Kind Of Unique Person Are You According To What You See?

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Humans are 60% water. So we are basically just cucumbers with anxiety.

We all know who it is; that little voice in our head that keeps us up at night, stops us from saying what we really mean and gives us too many alternate opinions when we don’t need them. It’s that little voice called anxiety giving us unnecessary headaches when we don’t need them.

Our anxiety is the result of everything in our day to day life and history, and we all have a different story. Lucky for us then, that this is the one topic that we all collectively share in common. No one is free from that little voice in our heads, for as long as we can talk and think, he will be there to torment us!

As light hearted as I have made it sound, the little voice of anxiety is really a very serious issue that puts us in a dark place and makes us think about bad things when we should be looking forward. How can we silence this demon and get some sleep at night?

1. Occupy your brain

As if life wasn’t difficult enough, try doing some mental calisthenics anyways. Puzzle games, crosswords and even silly mobile phone games are all little things that get our minds circulating off our issues and onto more simple, childish things. There is no shame in getting a few games of Candy Crush (or whatever your favourite mobile vice is) in to get your mind off of things.

2. You need a distraction

For some guys and girls, it takes minutes to get over a partner from a breakup, and others dwell on it for years. To those in the latter, it’s the voice inside the head that is doing the dwelling, and making life an uncomfortable place to be during that time. We dwell on “what if’s” and “why did I’s” all day and night until the voice is just driving us crazy. It leads some to drinking, and some to even worse.

We really don’t need this kind of stress in our life. If you are still so bent up about an old relationship, then you do not have enough distractions in your life. If you were dating someone new, your mind wouldn’t wander so far behind, and it would spend more time wandering to the future, and new possibilities. You need to do whatever you can to interact with someone new. You may not be ready for a new partner, but you will grow into the idea as you pursue new people. Your new person may not be the best replacement either, but at least you are trying. If you can date someone else who recently got out of a relationship, it may be the perfect opportunity to silence two inner voices at once.

3. Who cares if I am or not?

Our inner voice is our deepest critic. It wants us to impress people who don’t really matter to us, and turn little decisions into big deals. How many times have you changed outfits a hundred times before going out, only feeling more and more lost with each change. It magnifies little things and makes us worry too much about the things that don’t matter.

What does matter is our confident spirit and our ability to choose for ourselves. To choose to be comfortable, to choose to be powerful, and formidable. We need to be able to say to ourselves, “who cares?” every now and then to keep our inner voice in check and be able to continue our day fully in control. Enjoy the leisure you get out of saying that to yourself, and being able to live with comfortable aloofness. It feels great! So stop worrying.

4. Find stimulation through active media

The inner monologue in our head is background music to our foreground. White noise in our house is nice to fall asleep to sometimes (all those times you fell asleep in front of the TV?) but the white noise in our head is a curse. Instead of playing victim to it, try to drown it out by enjoying some of your favourite music or audio books. Really actively listen to it, instead of just having it in the background. Focus on the instruments, music, textures, or content, and absorb it. Use it as an opportunity to learn, and sidetrack yourself from what is bothering you. Go to the movies and enter another world for a few hours. Actively enjoying some media is a great medium to tell your inner anxiety to get lost.

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The business world is almost wholly information driven. Whether you’re writing emails, presentations, or sales information, you’re communicating by the written word an awful lot while at work. If you feel you need to brush up on your skills, keep these ten tips in mind as you write.

1. Take a break between writing and sending

You’re busy, and you just want to send off that email and get on with the next task on your to do list. However, resist the temptation and let it sit for an hour or so. When you come back to it, you’ll look at it with fresh eyes, and see what needs to be edited or altered.

2. Create templates

Whenever you write something you think really went well, save it as a template. The next time you need to write something similar, you can use that template to create it in half the time, knowing you’ll still write something you can be proud of. If you don’t have anything you can use as a template, they’re easy to find online.

3. Don’t give choices if you can help it

Being given too many options can lead to decision paralysis, which you just don’t have time for. When you’re writing, give a single option. For example, say ‘the meeting is scheduled for 2pm’. If you have to give a choice, just give two and ask readers to pick one. It’ll save you a lot of time.

4. Hire a writer if you need help

You may be struggling to write in the right tone, or even find the time to get all your writing done. Hiring a freelance writer will free up time, and give you copy that’s of high quality as it’s written by a professional.

5. Avoid buzzwords

Keeping your clear and to the point. Using buzzwords and jargon can feel like you’re making your copy exciting, but they can just be annoying to the reader. Also avoid using overly complicated language, when simpler language will do.

6. Use ‘active’ language

You want your reader to be engaged with what you’re writing. Using the passive voice won’t get them involved in what you have to say. Instead of ‘The meeting agenda can be discussed’, say ‘Let’s discuss the meeting agenda.’

7. Read your writing aloud

It sounds like a waste of time, but you should always read your writing aloud. What sounds ok on paper will sound different read aloud, so you’ll be able to spot errors and sections you’ll need to edit instantly.

8. Use solid facts

You want to enthuse about your products because you believe in them, and that’s fine. What you should do, though, is avoid hyperbole. Readers don’t want to read about your product if they can’t find out what it does. Stick to the facts, but use those facts to show how positive that product will be in their lives.

9. Remember to give the reader a reason to act

If you’re using active language, you shouldn’t find this difficult. Give the reader a reason to act, whether that’s by emailing you back, organising a meeting with you, or buying your product. You’re writing to persuade without being overbearing.

10. Use a call to action

Finally, include a clear ‘call to action’. This could be ‘Click this link to find out more’ or ‘Give me a call and we’ll set this up.’ Give the reader the instructions they need to take this further.

These ten tips should give your business writing skills a real boost. Try them out the next time you need to write and you’ll see just how much they improve.

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Are you always Mr./Ms./Mrs Nice? Or are you exactly the opposite? Maybe, most of the time, you are somewhere in between. There is one way to find out…

Play nice and answer sincerely to the questions in this test. If you don’t agree with the answer, maybe you should try again at some other time, or ask somebody how accurate was the answer.

Take just now this quick quiz and find out how attractive is your personality!

How Attractive Is Your Personality?

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