You may have no idea what your reason for being is. You’re annoyed, dissatisfied and unexcited by everything. It’s monotonous, tedious and frustrating.
And if you think you’re alone, think again.
In fact, you’re part of the largest group of people on Earth. You don’t know what to do with your life and, worse, you don’t know how to find out.
People are not born knowing their role in the world. In fact, we’re all born with endless possibilities and therein lies the problem. How do you even begin and, if you begin, how do you choose?
Can you move past the idea that there must be so much more? What are the ways to move on?
The Future is Yours—You Just Can’t See It
Life has many things in store for you. Family, friends, health, work, society—all of them change considerably during your lifetime. It’s unlikely that you will enjoy all these changes as not all of them will be positive.
Know this: your life’s journey is your masterpiece.
As you work in life, your purpose unfolds in front of you and your role in the world becomes clearer. Stop trying to meticulously plan your life. Planning is the antithesis to the adventure and improvisation that life requires. You’re in charge and that’s a great thing. A little scary maybe, but still a great thing. Remember that the best way to plan your future is to go out and create it!
Your default mode should be action. Doing [things] is honest philosophy. Stay positive and avoid criticizing others. Above all else, avoid negativity. Work to be helpful and try to look for ways to help other people.
At your job, help your boss. In your community, help your neighbors. For the rest of the world, help those less fortunate. Don’t enter the ugly fray that’s become so prevalent in our society. Always be on the side of positivity.
When you approach life this way, people seek you out and opportunities find you. It’s the law of attraction (http://ift.tt/1Rh8yjp).
Don’t Do What Makes You Happy
“Do what makes you happy” is a terrible advice from well-intentioned parents and teachers.
In fact, you should embrace discomforts and frustrations and move beyond your comfort zone. This is the only way to learn. To focus only on that which makes you happy means you avoid a great deal of life and the learning that comes with it.
Every time you move outside of your comfort zone, you learn more. Your role in life and your true happiness become clearer and you have more focus. You find out who you are and everything that you can endure. Each period of great discomfort teaches you about your preferences and that your limits are probably lesser than you imagined. Push your mind and body and then adjust. Do that again and again for that is the journey.
Investment In Your Mentality
ROI or Return on Investment (http://ift.tt/2cT3YZS) is when you get back what you put in.
You already know about moving beyond your comfort zone – that’s the fun, adventurous part. However, sacrifice is tougher. It is the boring and frustrating part where most people choose to stop.
Note to self: “Don’t stop here.”
You need to understand that there is a long road to travel and that life is a marathon. Chances are you’re just beginning.
Humans are hardwired to want things now. It’s called immediate gratification and it’s a very powerful force. You should be smarter than everyone else, so think! invest in your future and reap your returns as you move forward.
Creating your future most often means sacrificing time with family and friends, working for long stretches in jobs you don’t enjoy (http://ift.tt/2rfsRpg), studying and saving your money. We all have limited time, energy and funds, but you must invest those limited treasures so that you can create a future of greater abundance.
Stop waiting to be trained! The truth is that you can’t gain knowledge without seeking it. Nobody can teach you anything anyway. They can only help you learn so understand that going through the process alone is one of the effective ways to move on.
When you don’t know something, read about it, work at it or ask questions. Read about new places, research careers that interest you and speak to people with more experience.
The more you explore, the closer you come to understanding who you are and what you’re supposed to be doing. Don’t be afraid to get your hands dirty because that’s the only way to know if you’re enjoying something. Keep in mind that you are your best mentor.
Big questions that can be helpful:
- What are you most passionate about?
- How can you give back to the world (http://ift.tt/2sdrcxK)?
- What would you prioritize if money and time were no objects?
- Can you speak another language?
- Is travel important to you?
- What professional experience do you want to gain?
Today, hundreds of companies all over the world will allow you to travel, learn and give back while you continue to explore your passions, develop new skills and discover new interests. Start by helping in disaster relief abroad through All Hands Volunteers (https://www.hands.org/), offering your time to provide a better future to the kids in Latin America with Maximo Nivel (http://ift.tt/2kXdo86) or help orphaned and abandoned children in Africa and Asia through (http://ift.tt/2fFsNGT). Your role in the world and your preferences continue to evolve over time, so continue teaching yourself and keep learning!
There Is No Right Time
Time waits for no one, so utilize the time you’ve been gifted. As much as possible, avoid falling trap to time wasters, like TV, social media, people who don’t like you and being negative. Instead, try reading, traveling and being with the people who like you.
Your path in life and your role in the world are only discovered as you work at it. So, work hard! A lot of people miss the idea of fulfillment and happiness because opportunity always looks like hard work.
Instead of thinking that way, engage your mind and body in creating your life’s journey. It won’t be easy and it won’t be perfect. That’s completely fine as it’s not supposed to be.
Thinking about it, waiting, being nervous or scared—these are all personal choices. If you want to move out of a rut, move beyond those choices. You will never regret your adventures if you’re learning new things.