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I don’t have time… One of the most boring phrases and excuses we hear each day. The worst thing is, we are all guilty of saying it.

All those daily schedules packed with urgent tasks, big projects, household chores and tons of other stuff to accomplish leave us no choice but to say, “I don’t have time” to our partners, parents, friends, and even kids.

We often skip breakfast, doctor’s appointments, dates, trips, vacations, you name it because we don’t have time.  It’s time to eliminate this phrase from your vocabulary for good and here’s why:

1. Your busy life isn’t actually busy

Before you tell me that I’m crazy and have no idea what I’m talking about, hear me out. The majority of people confess that they use their seemingly busy lives as an excuse when they want to avoid certain situations.

The saying proves, “When you want to see someone, you will find the time. When you want to do something, you will definitely do it.” And don’t tell me that it’s not true. How many times have you kicked your oh-so-important projects to the curb to go on a first date or watch the new episode of your favorite show?

You’re not alone, we’ve all done it at least once.

2. Procrastination is your biggest enemy

Everyone procrastinates. That’s a norm. But if you say, “I’ll do it later. I don’t have time” more than twice a day every day, congratulations – you are a chronic procrastinator. Science says about 20% of people are chronic procrastinators but only a few of them realize it. If you do realize, that’s great – you’re a step closer to getting rid of this habit.

The Stockholm University’s study proved that procrastination has nothing to do with time management. Whether you’re an entrepreneur or a college student, you have to get things done on time in order to cultivate discipline and become successful. Stop leaving things to the last minute and you will see how much free time you can have.

3. It’s just not your priority

Don’t feel like going on a second date? Don’t want to take that extra work your boss is suggesting to you? Want to spend Friday nights alone? Do whatever you believe is better for you, but don’t feed others with your never-ending “I don’t have time” excuses.

It’s okay to make priorities and let others know about them. Be honest with yourself and others. This is one of the most effective ways to gain respect. Your boss would rather accept your “I don’t want to do that extra task” than believe in your excuses.

4. It makes you feel guilty

How many times did you say to your nearest and dearest that you don’t have time and then ended up feeling guilty for saying it?

We skip many precious family moments, including the first steps of our babies and the last breaths of our parents because we make ourselves feel busy all the time. We can’t find our soul mates because we have no time for love. We skip fun parties because we have to get our endless to-do lists done.

Life is short. You should always find time for people you love, otherwise, you can spend many years regretting you were too busy to play with your little ones or help your grandparents repair their home.

5. Start living your life

Yes, you read that right. A busy life isn’t a fulfilled life. You miss many life’s opportunities because you mistakenly believe you’re always super busy.

If your life is filled with jam-packed schedules that include work, shopping, cleaning, cooking, and sleeping, you don’t live your life. You simply exist. You live to make money and nothing more. Stop saying you don’t have time for a happy and fun life, otherwise, you will have nothing to remember in your 70s.

6. It’s just another excuse

Doesn’t it sound like an excuse? It’s surely an excuse. By not saying you don’t have time, you will eliminate many excuses from your life. Not only will you get what you want in the end, but you will start feeling more proud of yourself. Not to mention that others will stop calling you a chronic excuse-maker.

There are many reasons to stop saying you don’t have time, and I highlighted just the most important ones. As soon as you delete this boring phrase from your vocabulary and lame excuse from your life, you will see that you can actually do more things that you’ve thought you could and you’ll increase your chances of finally becoming a successful and happy person.

Remember, there’s always a successful road overstretched before you. All you need to do is to see and follow that path.

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A 2013 Gallup Poll revealed that 70% of the American workforce either hates, or is disengaged by, their jobs. Furthermore, a 2011 study revealed that the psycho-social impact of working a job you dislike is actually worse for your mental health than being unemployed.

That’s pretty shocking, right? It appears that the world of work really has the potential to ruin your life.

Such a possibility begs an important question – is it time for you to quit your job?

I don’t ask you to ask this question lightly. I’m well aware of some of the pitfalls of quitting. However, at what point does taking this risk become a necessity to preserve your dignity, health and enjoyment of life?

The following 10 signs should help you answer that question. Getting the timing right, when quitting, is of fundamental importance to the decision leading you to a better place. By working your way through this list you’ll be able to identify the signs that your current job is damaging your well-being. Then, I’ll inform you of what you need to have in place to make the transition as smooth as possible.

Category 1: The Warning Signs

1. You’re low on a Monday, high on a Friday

Just because almost everybody else you know feels the same, don’t make the mistake of thinking it’s normal to live this way. It’s not. You shouldn’t be dreading the onset of the working week and you shouldn’t be celebrating the end of it. This is your life. You can’t spend it wishing you were somewhere else.

2. You’re clock watching throughout the day

Keeping track of time once in a while is not an issue. However, if you find yourself regularly looking at your watch then it’s a clear sign you’re not stimulated by the work you’re doing.

Work doesn’t have to be this way. It’s possible for you to be so engaged by the tasks you undertake that you lose track of time. That’s the kind of job you should be looking for. If you’re current role doesn’t provide this stimulation, then perhaps it’s time to look for one that does.

3. You’re Strong Arming people out the Building at closing time

Ever been in a shop, library or restaurant close to closing time and the assistant is hovering over you and frequently reminding you that you have 10 minutes till closing time, then 9, then 8 etc . . You just want to tell them to piss off, but at the same time, you can sympathize with their situation.

They don’t want to be there. They don’t enjoy their work and the thought of having to spend just 1 minute longer in this soul destroying place is enough to turn them into a shop floor bouncer.

This type of behavior doesn’t just apply to retail assistants though. If, at 5.30pm, you’re logging off and running for the door, it’s a sure sign that your work is providing little motivation beyond financial reward. If you work a job you enjoy then you don’t mind carrying on for an extra few minutes, or half hour, to ensure that your customers are satisfied and you do a great job.

Category 2: Quit Sooner Rather than Later

4. Your Health is Suffering

Damage to health can come in many forms. Perhaps you’re exposed to dangerous chemicals or a hazardous working environment. More than likely, you’re under so much pressure, and having to work so many hours, that your stress levels are dangerously high, you’re permanently exhausted through lack of sleep, you’re unhealthily overweight through lack of time to exercise or you have to rely on excessive drug use (both legal and illegal) to keep you going or because it’s part of the culture you work in (see The Wolf of Wall Street).

If this is the case for you, I hope this paragraph acts as a wake-up call. No amount of money can make up for permanently damaged health.  Get out soon or, even better, play The System and get paid time off for stress while you look for other work.

5. You’re not Treated with any Respect

Studies reveal that appreciation is one of the biggest motivators in the workplace. We all want to be treated fairly, with respect and given recognition for the good work we do.

So if you find that the goalposts are being moved when it comes to bonus time, you’re being lumbered with an extra role but not getting a pay rise, you’re being spoken to in a dismissive manner and regularly given tasks to do at 5.25 pm which need to be ready for 9 am the next day, then you must stand up for yourself and explain that you won’t tolerate this treatment.

If it continues, hand in your notice.

Category 3: You’re Prepared for the Transition

6. You’ve built up a side income

Once you’re earning the minimum amount of money to survive on, from outside your day job, then quit. Now when I say the minimum, I mean the minimum. This doesn’t mean that you can afford vacations, cars and meals out. It means that you can just about cover your overheads and put food on your table.

Why is this the right time to leave?

Because freedom is more valuable than money. So what if you can’t afford the lifestyle of your friends? What you do have, that they don’t, is an abundance of time to dedicate to something you are passionate about.

Remember, you will only grow from this position. If you’ve been slowly building up a side income doing something you enjoy, while working a day job you don’t, it’s likely you’ve got the minimum amount of clients, knowledge and contacts to make it viable. So make the transition now!

7. You’ve got enough Money Saved to Live a Year plus without Working

If you use it productively, A LOT can be accomplished in a year. Even without any clue what you might like to do, it’s still worth the risk.

What’s the worst that can happen? In a years’ time you have to find a job similar to the one you quit? At least you’ve given yourself the opportunity to find something greater!

And, of course, you may actually find it. You have no idea what you can achieve when you’re not exhausted by a job you hate and don’t have the time restraints of working 40 hours a week, commuting and other commitments.

8. You set a ‘Quit Date’ a while back and it’s fast approaching

If you’re the kind of person who sets a ‘quit date’ then it’s likely you’ve prepared for what will happen. You’ve probably got some money stashed away, a small secondary income or a solid idea about how you will make money doing something you enjoy.

SO DON’T GET COLD FEET.

Trust yourself and trust the judgement that led you to set that date.

Category 4: Exceptional Circumstances

9. You’ve been Ignoring your ‘Calling’ for Years

If you feel you have a clear calling (and it’s constantly nagging at you) to do something greater than you are at present, then don’t ignore it. Yes, quitting your job is risky and yes, if you’re not properly prepared then you may experience many failures. But is this worse than living with a lifetime of regret?

10. You’re Totally Unsatisfied with your Life So Far

Perhaps you’ve recently experienced a major life event and it’s made you question a lot of things. You realize you’re time on this planet is finite and don’t want to get to the end of it feeling like you could have done so much more. If this is the case then why not quit a job that’s restricting you?

Influential blogger, Jon Morrow, was in this position (involved in a car crash, very little money, unsatisfied with his life and suffering with SMA) in 2006 when he decided to quit his job and pursue his dream of running a successful blog. Ten years later and he’s fantastically wealthy, gets to do the thing he loves and rules the blogging kingdom.

It can be done.

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Joe Barnes is the author of the critically acclaimed, Escape The System, and the creator of the Screw the System website. He’s passionate about helping people succeed on their own terms. He also works as a tennis coach and hypnotherapist.

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