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Have you ever noticed that, no matter how good a course you attend or a book you read is, only one insight tends to stick in your mind? It’s crazy, we might get a handful of great lessons yet only one stays with us.

The good news is, though, this is usually enough. You can do a lot with one piece of actionable wisdom. It can add a new dimension to your work, it can break a habit that could free you from a lifelong addiction and it can help you let go of old patterns of thinking that held you back.

So, in recognition of the way our brains work, I decided to gather 20 of my favorite personal development books and breakdown their most salient points into just one take away message.

It’s a broad range. You’ll find traditional self-help classics such as Think and Grow Rich alongside lifestyle guides like Paul McKenna’s I can Make you Thin. I’ve also thrown in a couple of business related books like Richard Branson’s Business Stripped Bare and saved a surprise for you at the end.

Of course, I’d be countering my own logic if I thought you’d remember all twenty insights. However, I know that within them, they’ll be one that will jump out and have a profoundly positive impact on your life in the coming months.

Think and Grow Rich (Napoleon Hill) – Write down a crystal clear statement regarding the amount of money you desire, what you will do to achieve this sum and how soon you wish to attain it. Feed your mind on it daily either through repetition or frequent viewing.

You’ll see it when you Believe it (Wayne Dyer) – Most people live their lives only believing something about themselves or their abilities after they’ve achieved it. To distinguish yourself from the masses, you must believe in yourself or your idea even when there is no physical proof or reason for you to do so.

The Power of Now (Eckhart Tolle) – All suffering originates from not living in the moment. If you can let go of all your regrets from the past, fear about the future and calm your racing thoughts, then a life of peace and happiness will be yours.

The Power of your Subconscious Mind (Joseph Murphy) – You are connected to infinite intelligence through your subconscious mind. Learn to use this power positively by having a simple faith that you live a healthy, happy, exciting and love filled life.

As a Man Thinketh (James Allen) – You don’t get what you want, you get what you are. Your habitual thinking will reveal itself through the events and outcomes of your life so take time to master the realm of thought.

Pyscho-Cybernetics (Maxwell Maltz) – Your subconscious mind works likes a guided missile. Give it clear and frequent instructions about what you want from your life and it will course adjust to bring you to your desired destination.

The Magic of Believing (Claude Bristol) – The magic thread running through all religions, miraculous healings and ancient rituals is the power of belief. To use it successfully, you must have a strong emotional conviction in the outcome you want to occur being realised.

Never too Late to be Great (Tom Butler-Bowdon) – With advances in modern medicine and changes in lifestyle, you have multiple chances to be great at something (or many things) in your lifetime. Take a long term view of your life and you’ll realise your success is virtually guaranteed.

The Celestine Prophecy (James Redfield) – You don’t need to steal your energy from other people by being controlling or manipulative in your relationships. Instead, there is an abundance of it in the Universe and you can access it at any time by connecting within.

Excuse me, your Life is Waiting (Lynn Grabhorn) – The energy you live with is the key to being successful and living the life you want. Therefore, on a daily basis you must find ways to feel great and avoid negative states.

Man’s Search for Meaning (Victor Frankl) – As long as you have a purpose for your life, you can endure almost any circumstance. Find this purpose through work you are passionate about, your loved ones or a commitment to bear your suffering with dignity.

The 80/20 Principle (Richard Koch) – Life doesn’t work on a 50/50 basis when it comes to efforts and results (you don’t get out what you put in). Instead, the relationship is skewed and some of your efforts will reap extraordinary results (20% effort for 80% result). Find out where these exceptions lie and focus your time here.

Willpower (Roy Baumeister) – Your willpower can be exhausted and needs to be replenished. Be aware of this and tackle major life challenges like stopping smoking and losing weight one at a time.

I Can Make you Thin (Paul McKenna) – Only eat when you are feeling hungry and stop when you are full. Follow this rule religiously and what you eat won’t be such an issue.

Easy Way to Stop Smoking (Allen Carr) – All the benefits ascribed to smoking are purely psychological. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by stopping and, once this penny drops, becoming a non-smoker will be easy.

The Game (Neil Strauss) – Becoming attractive to the opposite sex is a skill that can be learned. Irrespective of your appearance, wealth or previous success in dating, if you can create a belief that you’re valuable then women will want to be with you.

How to Get Rich (Felix Dennis) – Ownership is the key. Own the entirety of the company you work for (as opposed to being an employee or holding a minority share) and you will command a fortune when all of your hard work pays off.

Business Stripped Bare (Richard Branson) – You don’t have to follow the rules to be successful in business and there are no barriers to entry. All you need is your gut instinct and the wisdom to learn from your experiences.

It’s not how Good you Are, It’s how Good you want to Be (Paul Arden) – You become rich and powerful by wanting to be rich and powerful. In a world where mediocrity is the norm, a simple desire for greatness will set you head and shoulders above the masses.

Escape The System (Joe Barnes) – Free yourself from the negative influence of your societies conditioning and the possibilities for your life are limitless. You feeling like you don’t belong or ‘fit it’ is actually message that you have a unique and important destiny.

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Integrity can be difficult to define precisely because it is not a black and white or cut and dry definition to most. In our society, many people follow different sets of moral code, that can be defined individually and fall into many gray areas. However, fundamentally, integrity is the ability to do what you say you will do and take action toward the principles you believe in. There are two most common words associated with a person of integrity, these are honesty and trustworthiness.

The practice of integrity is also linked with a lack of self interest, an ability to make decisions that serve the greater good by exemplifying righteousness and decency. Here are 7 blogs that illuminate what it is to have integrity in a mostly ‘me-me’ society.

1. This important blog by Joel Wade highlights how to excel with the practice of integrity and how it translates into everything in our lives from work to relationships. He is all about the idea that a positive impact in society can be a small act of integrity that resonates and changes the people and environment around you.

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2. This blog by Seth Meyers Psy.D., gives us a clear definition of actionable signs that you are a person with integrity. The good news is, one can change their practices to increase the level of integrity they carry through in life. Sometimes we are simply unaware that what we are doing may impact someone else negatively, just being mindful of others with a few small changes, can find us close to living with integrity.

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3. James Bach’s blog lays out a workable strategy for cultivating integrity in both your personal and professional life. After he gives us some precious little antidotes on integrity, he follows with some personal experience of his own life that is both fascinating and inspiring. We are all tested on our ethical values at one time or another, this blog helps one define that ‘feeling’ that comes with being asked to do or say something that doesn’t feel right to us. Standing up for your own values is having integrity.

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4. This is an interesting read as it reveals the perspective of integrity to communication in business relationships. He considers integrity to be ‘the roof under which knowledge and authority dwell’. The take away here is that in order to communicate effectively you must be heard, and in order to be heard you must grant a message that offers integrity.

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5. Integrity is about first identifying your core values, then living in accordance with those with honesty and keeping your word. Put time into relationships with like minded people who display integrity.

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6. A wholly authentic perspective on creative integrity comes in the form of Bill Watterson’s musings, commencement speech and his comics Calvin and Hobbes. The idea is one would be happier to invent one’s own meaning out of life, and that creating a life that satisfies is a rare yet great achievement.

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7. This blog centers on the element of honesty and trust as its concerned with integrity. A long list of the most common forms of dishonesty serve to frame this article, including everything from false recognition to denial and a lack of transparency.

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When one really thinks about it, everything depends on the honesty that is at the core of integrity. If we didn’t have trust, relationships would fail, public leader figures would not be sincere and information would be so fragmented and spun that all we would ever be is guarded, and that is surely no way to live.

‘The reputation of a thousand years may be determined by the conduct of one hour.”-Japanese Proverb

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Larissa Gomes is a breast cancer survivor and single mom to her spirited baby boy! Originally from Toronto turned Angeleno, she has worked in roles from writer, actor and producer for well over a decade. In that time, she’s developed concepts, film and television screenplays, short stories, along with freelance articles, blogging and editing work.

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