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You’ve been waiting for that apology for forever. Why can’t they just admit they were wrong and say sorry? Why does it always have to be this hard? It has never been hard for you to swallow your pride when necessary, admit to your error and say sorry. You just wish more people would be like you. Chances are, you may never hear them say I’m sorry.
Apologizing comes easy for some and not at all for others. For those of us who are quick to apologize we simply don’t get the ones who don’t and end up quite frustrated, annoyed and perhaps even slightly angered by the fact that they won’t. just say I’m sorry for goodness sakes. Why is it and how can it be so hard? Here are 6 reasons why you may never hear it and why you should just get used to it.
Plain and simple. In their mind, they have done no wrong so why on earth should they apologize? You think and are pretty sure that they are at fault but they beg to differ. Don’t try arguing with them. Arguing with a fool only proves there are two. There is nothing you will ever be able to do about this. Let it go. Don’t waste your anger or energy on them. It’s not worth it and 9 times out of 10 it’s probably petty frivolous issues.
Many of us don’t like to say sorry. It means we are wrong and we know it. How can that be though? We’re never wrong. We are usually always right. They will want to think on this. Probably for so long that they secretly hope you have forgotten all about it by the time they realize that they were, in fact, wrong, and an apology is necessary. They just don’t want to say sorry.
And because they don’t want to say sorry, they won’t. You or anyone else isn’ t going to bully them into an apology. It’s not how they are wired. Apologizing isn’t anything they ever had to do growing up either, and they aren’t about to start now as an adult. They will simply avoid the whole issue and pretend it doesn’t even exist. Most likely, as children, their parents made excuses constantly for their behaviour and they got away with every thing. They still do.
Once they say sorry for one thing, suddenly all kinds of things are thrown on the table and more apologies will be expected from them. They prefer to leave the lid to Pandora’s box sealed tightly. Remember they aren’t in the habit of saying sorry and don’t want to have to start having all those remember when times thrown in their faces. They remember when but they would rather soon forget it and wish you would too. Let it be.
Saying sorry is showing pure and raw emotion. It means the person who is apologizing know what they did is wrong and they are terribly saddened by their actions and upset at themselves for hurting you. That is too many emotions for them to bear and show to you. They prefer to keep all that stuff bottled up. Showing emotion doesn’t come easy and it certainly won’t come through a form of an apology. Don’t hold your breath.
For those who prefer to show you that they are sorry rather than say it, they will bring you gifts or show you more love or whatever they have in their toolbox for fixing broken hearts. They get what they did was wrong but they prefer to show you how sorry they are rather than say it. Some find this is a grander gesture and also slightly more romantic. To them, words mean nothing. When they are done adoring yo u, you will have no doubt they were sorry.
Saying sorry is genuinely hard for many people. Some may never say it. Others say it all the time. I’m a firm believer of the last point on here. Actions really do speak louder than words but if you clearly know what you did was wrong and it was really bad, just say sorry. The other person really does deserve an apology.
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Some words are just better left said by history’s greatest minds.
Great psychiatrists and psychotherapists, eccentric poets and playwrights, ancient Chinese philosophers, ultra-successful entrepreneurs, even incarnations of supreme gods.
I mean, any problem you face today has been faced in some form or another thousands of times before. So why spend your life stumbling in the dark looking for the path, when you can be a handed a map and flashlight to help guide you the way.
The wisdom and truth in the following quotes is so simple that it can be—and often is—overlooked. Take a moment to let them seep into your very core and they’re sure to set you on the way to a life of greater meaning and purpose.
“What did you do as a child that made the hours pass like minutes? Herein lies the key to your earthly pursuits.”
―Carl Jung
“When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everyone will respect you.”
―Lao Tzu
“You act like mortals in all that you fear, and like immortals in all that you desire”.
—Seneca
“Wisdom begins in wonder”.
—Socrates
“Many a false step has been made by standing still”.
—Fortune Cookie
“Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination”.
—Oscar Wilde
“Until we lose ourselves there is no hope of finding ourselves”.
—Henry Miller
“We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”
―Joseph Campbell
“It is not true that people stop pursuing dreams because they grow old, they grow old because they stop pursuing dreams.”
―Gabriel García Márquez
“It is better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else’s life with perfection.”
―The Bhagavad Gita
“Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.”
—Andre Gide
“One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.”
–Unknown
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”
—Maya Agelou
“Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.”
—Joshua J. Marine
“Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs.”
—Farrah Gray
“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.”
—Carl Bard
“I am thankful for all of those who said NO to me. Its because of them I’m doing it myself.”
—Albert Einstein
“Even if you fall on your face you’re still moving forward.”
—Victor Kiam
“Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.”
—Wayne Dyer
“Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking.”
—William Butler Yeats
“Fortune favours the brave.”
—Latin Proverb
Want to get each day of your new life off to the best possible start?
Grab a free copy of our new eBook: MORNING MASTERY: The Simple 20 Minute Routine For Long Lasting Energy, Laser-Sharp Focus, and Stress Free Living.
Joseph is a freelance writer, and the co-creator of Project Monkey Mind—a new blog for the 21st century solopreneur and young professional who wants to lead a more free and fulfilling life.
You’ve read 21 Quotes To Change How You Think About Life Today, originally posted on Pick the Brain | Motivation and Self Improvement. If you’ve enjoyed this, please visit our site for more inspirational articles.
You’re reading 21 Quotes To Change How You Think About Life Today, originally posted on Pick the Brain | Motivation and Self Improvement. If you’re enjoying this, please visit our site for more inspirational articles.
Some words are just better left said by history’s greatest minds.
Great psychiatrists and psychotherapists, eccentric poets and playwrights, ancient Chinese philosophers, ultra-successful entrepreneurs, even incarnations of supreme gods.
I mean, any problem you face today has been faced in some form or another thousands of times before. So why spend your life stumbling in the dark looking for the path, when you can be a handed a map and flashlight to help guide you the way.
The wisdom and truth in the following quotes is so simple that it can be—and often is—overlooked. Take a moment to let them seep into your very core and they’re sure to set you on the way to a life of greater meaning and purpose.
“What did you do as a child that made the hours pass like minutes? Herein lies the key to your earthly pursuits.”
―Carl Jung
“When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everyone will respect you.”
―Lao Tzu
“You act like mortals in all that you fear, and like immortals in all that you desire”.
—Seneca
“Wisdom begins in wonder”.
—Socrates
“Many a false step has been made by standing still”.
—Fortune Cookie
“Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination”.
—Oscar Wilde
“Until we lose ourselves there is no hope of finding ourselves”.
—Henry Miller
“We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”
―Joseph Campbell
“It is not true that people stop pursuing dreams because they grow old, they grow old because they stop pursuing dreams.”
―Gabriel García Márquez
“It is better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else’s life with perfection.”
―The Bhagavad Gita
“Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.”
—Andre Gide
“One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.”
–Unknown
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”
—Maya Agelou
“Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.”
—Joshua J. Marine
“Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs.”
—Farrah Gray
“Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.”
—Carl Bard
“I am thankful for all of those who said NO to me. Its because of them I’m doing it myself.”
—Albert Einstein
“Even if you fall on your face you’re still moving forward.”
—Victor Kiam
“Go for it now. The future is promised to no one.”
—Wayne Dyer
“Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking.”
—William Butler Yeats
“Fortune favours the brave.”
—Latin Proverb
Want to get each day of your new life off to the best possible start?
Grab a free copy of our new eBook: MORNING MASTERY: The Simple 20 Minute Routine For Long Lasting Energy, Laser-Sharp Focus, and Stress Free Living.
Joseph is a freelance writer, and the co-creator of Project Monkey Mind—a new blog for the 21st century solopreneur and young professional who wants to lead a more free and fulfilling life.
You’ve read 21 Quotes To Change How You Think About Life Today, originally posted on Pick the Brain | Motivation and Self Improvement. If you’ve enjoyed this, please visit our site for more inspirational articles.
Superhero movies may be hit or miss sometimes, but even mediocre movies often come with outstanding soundtracks. The best scores become ingrained in us. This playlist features some of the best superhero music of the last decade and a half.
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