On the day he was killed, Mexican journalist Javier Valdez had just come from a meeting with the Riodoce newspaper staff about his security situation; he should leave Sinaloa, at least for a while, everyone agreed. He was intercepted by gunmen on his way home.
Month: May 2017
How He Used Facebook to Win
There are many ways that the Democrats lost the election, starting with the foibles of the candidate herself. If the Republicans had lost, that would have been the prevailing story about them and their candidate as well. That the Republicans didn’t lose can be attributed in large measure to their expert manipulation of social media: Donald Trump is our first Facebook president. His team figured out how to use all the marketing tools of Facebook, as well as Google, the two biggest advertising platforms in the world, to successfully sell a candidate that the majority of Americans did not want.
These 7 companies control almost every single beauty product you…
How to Imagine Consciousness
To the Editors: I agree with Thomas Nagel, along with probably 99.9 percent of humanity, that we really do experience “color, flavor, sound, touch, etc.” We don’t just say we do. But, probably along with 99.9 percent of neuroscientists, I don’t think “the trouble [with Daniel Dennett’s claim] is that…nothing whatever is revealed to the first-person point of view but a ‘version’ of the neural machinery.”
A Contemporary 3-Storey Townhome in Bangkok, Thailand
This housing development, consisting of a 3-storey townhome, was designed and constructed by baan puripuri in 2017. Located in Bangkok, Thailand, the home covers an area of 220 square meters. The landscaping on the outside, lush but tamed, shyly seeps into the interior through the clear glass walls that make up the back side of the house. We’ll find a sort of wooden box with benches and cushions on its..
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Here’s why they call male bighorn sheep rams. During the mating…
Here’s why they call male bighorn sheep rams. During the mating season or “rut” in November and December, the rams butt heads while sparring for females. The massive impacts can break horns and sends a cracking noise echoing through the mountains. It’s an incredible natural event to witness. Photo from the National Elk Refuge in Wyoming by Adam Jewell (http://ift.tt/18oFfjl).
Fabulous Remodeling of a House in England for a Couple in Their Retirement Years
The architecture Studio Vita Architecture took this magnificent remodeling of a project located in Reigate, Surrey, England, belonging to a couple in their retirement years. The project, completed in 2017, had a simple purpose: provide the couple with a space where they could dedicate their hours to free time, as well as thoroughly enjoy a calm and relaxing atmosphere. Despite being comfortable with the house, they felt they needed to..
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Steel and Glass Costa Rican home by Cañas Arquitectos
This house, built between the years of 2001-2012, was designed by the local architectural Studio Cañas Arquitectos. Located in the colonial city of Escazú, San José, Costa Rica, in an important canton located approximately 7 km west of the center of San José, it was built atop a hill overlooking San José and Heredia. It offers an excellent alternative location to live in downtown as Escazú still retains some of..
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4 Dating Mistakes You Could Be Making (And What To Do With Them)
Whether you are dating in hopes of finding your first love or are back in the game after healing from a breakup or divorce, dating is a whole world of its own. There are unspoken rules and plenty of personalities in the mix that make the waters less than clear for all of the players involved.
Dating has changed a lot in recent years with the development of online dating sites, apps, and matchmakers. I am often counseling people recently separated or divorced who want to re-enter the dating scene. Faced with these new options, they tell me that a process that used to be intimidating and overwhelming has now also become very confusing.
Beyond the ‘how-tos’ of finding a date are the ‘how-tos’ of behaving on a date. In an area where self-doubt and insecurities can get the best of you, fostering some level of self-confidence is crucial to finding dating success.
To increase your odds of success, take a look at these four common dating mistakes and evaluate yourself. If you might be making any of them, then follow the tips on how you can avoid them.
Putting on a show
What you’re doing: We all feel the need to present the best of ourselves to a date and, in a way, perform for them. We understandably want to make sure that we come across as likable and leave a great first impression. With this, it is easy to cross the line and give a false representation of who we truly are.
How to stop: Rather than focusing on how you are coming across to your date, just try to be present in the moment with them. Be yourself, listen to your date and be engaging. This will help you to be able to decipher how you feel about your date instead of just wanting them to like you enough to go for a second date.
See Also: 5 Ways To Keep a Conversation From Coming To a Dead-end Standstill
Being superficial
What you’re doing: Putting too much emphasis on a person’s looks or income won’t build a lasting relationship. Superficial things will eventually fade away and the relationship won’t have enough of a solid foundation to stand on.
How to stop: Take the time to learn what your date’s core values and morals are. Being able to have a great conversation, along with similar goals and life ethics, will set a better groundwork for a mutually enjoyable and lasting relationship than most other qualities.
Ignoring warning signs
What you’re doing: In the beginning, we tend to ignore the obvious red flags about our date, either because we really like that person or because we really want it to work out. However, it is important to pay attention to their behavior and trust your instincts when dating.
How to stop: If your date is rude to the waiter, talks about himself the entire time or gives you a bad feeling in your gut, trust that as a warning sign and don’t continue seeing them. If something bothers you on an early date, it will really irritate you later on in the relationship.
Putting too much emphasis on chemistry
What you’re doing: If sparks are flying, then that is great, but don’t equate chemistry to love or compatibility. Things like physical attraction and charisma can all lead to chemistry, but that doesn’t necessarily mean the two of you will make a good pairing in the long run.
How to stop: Take the time and ask questions to find out more about the person you’re dating. It’s great to laugh and have a physical connection. Just make sure you are also getting to know who the other is as a person and that the things he cares about are also things you care about.
Early dating should be a fun and a pressure-free experience. The purpose is simply to get to know the other person and learn if the two of you could connect on a deeper level. Don’t worry too much about ‘the rules’ of dating such as when to call the person or the right way to ask for a second date.
Focus on just being yourself and having good conversation, and you’ll make yourself a much more attractive date and potential future partner.
See Also: The Dos and Don’ts of a First Date for Men
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May 18th
It is thanks to my evening reading alone that I am still more or less sane.
Sig Nordal 